I'm Adi, one of the contributors to this page. We two friends started to create a new blog to share new things to the world.
We approx 90% of world youth are now are in a tough situation about our carrier and future tension. One day we all have to die and have to leave all the things we are doing now, we can't take anything's right now we are searching for. So why we are doing all those things. Why we are searching for happiness.
After we were born, all of our parents decided to make us a big money Lord in future. And after this time our struggle started to get top rank in every class. The first turning point of our younger life we get when our Class 10th results were announced. This is the first turning point of our life because on that point we have to manage ourself from many things like, if we get fewer marks in class 10, then the dream of studying in science is finished whereas some students don't want to study in science is willing, but in some point due to family and relatives impression we have to take science stream in class 11, also after getting less mark we have to listen to people's unsatisfied comments on us. There might be some problem for which we can't get sufficient marks. That point no one will come to hear and also we started being afraid of everything which will make us very nervous and ultimately that particular student falls into depression at the age of 15 to 16 years. That depression on the heart will affect more and more day by day when we hear more bad comments about that particular thing. Our society treats them like useless fellow only because they don't get the science stream in class 11. Everything might be in control if and only if the parents are good enough to understand his/her child. Nowadays parents are like more than a businessman because when there son/daughters got insufficient mark they treat them like they had wasted their money and if they use all that money in another purpose they must get a big return. And I saw that in front of my eyes they feel cry only for getting low marks and waste their money, day and night those parents treat their children as a looser and make them more depressed.
Will this help their children to be a good human being? I will clearly say "no". This types of depression make a student stronger feeling less person. And they started themselves a real loser in life. Some of them choose to do suicide due to this depression and takes many more ways. Even I decided to leave the home if I fail on class 12, and a day before I was fully prepared for it, because my exam was not good enough due to some health problems like typhoid and high blood pressure up to 160-110 in the age of 17 to 18. I clearly point to my parents' for my high blood pressure because they somehow do almost the same thing with me, and now I have to suffer from this health problem. But God helped me because I got 58% in class 12.
The second turning point of a student's life is when their class 12 result was announced and that was the toughest one that is their main path for carrier selection. Again they have to suffer from the same problem that I had discussed above. Mainly some parents doing business with their children. They want to get more returns of money that they had invested in a particular person.
Being a student I felt each and every point I had discussed. I suffered abject the same. And also I started feeling myself a number one looser in the world, due to these situations only. But I want to thanks to my university professors and my beloved college friends who love me a lot and I do the same too. I started living alone in my college days and I think that will also help me to transform. Many people have their different mindset and views also the character and they have to choose their own way to transform. To get relief from this life returns industry we need to go out of our home and try to transform ourselves as a real human being. After doing this then go for the life journey that you like to go with, and don't share any things with your parents which might affect your carrier. Because life is ours and we are the manager of it before getup we need to learn how to manage ourselves and go for it. We can't stand-up until and unless we tend to suffer and understand from the failure. Do those particular things which you can do that in restless and for free for anyone, that shows your passions and your interest and goal of life too. Always try to do little different than others.
There is another problem that arrived after our education journey, and that is our love life. In some part of our life, we stuck on that unnecessary struggle which will again make ourselves a disgusting experience and this is only for not getting a perfect partner. The youth of nowadays wasted their life on that love and breakup which is totally an extra thing and disturbs our beautiful life. If I'm saying about my life I started falling for a girl in my school days and bad luck is that she got married when I was in class 12. Then I started wondering that I need to do the arrange marriage, but our bad boy's group started pointing me to some others junior girls and finally proposed one girl in class 12 and again bad luck she makes me brother and tied "rakhi" to me. Then in college 1st year, I started chatting with one of the same-age friends (girl) and slowly again we fall for each other but she already has a boyfriend and still, she chatted with me on WhatsApp. We start meeting and in and after our 3rd or 4th meeting she said she has to stop this with me and immediately block me on her phone and in every social media platform too. And from that point of time, I stop chatting with girls and started spending free time playing games like PUBG Mobile.
Many people have their own turning point in their life and they have to go with that. The next turning point in our life comes after graduation to find a job and again we have to feel the same useless comments from people, demotivated speech and many more. Anyhow, we managed to get any job then immediately the last and final turning point of our life stands which is marriage, we are some kind lucky and unlucky too if we are doing the arrange marriage because if the partner is good then your rest of life will go awesome. But if the partner is not enough good then life will be a hell. Same in love marriage also. People will change according to things and needs. So a good person will try to understand each and every person in a family and go for any work and another good person will think for herself and her husband's only.
After serving for others of people in our whole life, we again start expecting the same from their children. And life will go on and in for service of others in a life industry where you will get nothing. If you serve yourself then at the end of life you can feel it truly.
When we are at the last point of our life which we called it the last breath before die, what we take from this life? Literally not a single thing without bad dreams and thoughts. If we do well in life then we can carry good thoughts and go peacefully to die. But the life what we are living is a meaningless life. Without any certain meaning, life is a bad dream.
If you really want to change yourself, then ask yourself on that point of life in last breath before you die that what you will need to make your life a meaningful and peaceful one before dying. And then set a goal of life and go for it.
Thanks for your patience for reading up to this much my thoughts and emotions. If you really want to change the world of people then please share this to your family, friends, and also relatives. And make their life a meaningful life and try to live it for yourself, not for others.
- Aadi
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